Let’s get conversational. I know that it has been six months since I’ve posted anything for my blog. Yes, I took a hiatus to focus on honing my skills as a Life Coach to gain a better understanding of the single male/female relationships. OMG…I have been in reality school 2015. Ultimately, single women want that “Perfect Guy” or nothing at all. And single men don’t want to commit. I found that far too many single people are content being single. What ever happened to “It is not good for the man to be alone” Hence why the dating sites are a multi-million dollar industry. While conducting my interviews, I found with both men and women they seem to share two common viewpoints. One, relationships are drama filled, and two relationships are too much emotional work. I’m beginning to think that the idea of a committed relationship nowadays is considered an old fashion notion… Seriously! I am getting very concerned that most of the single people I interviewed would rather have a “hook up” than plan a wedding. Okay! forget marriage…I get it! Marriage is not for everyone…but how about not wanting to grow old alone or that fear of never knowing what unconditional love feels like. Most said that’s not important. Most said they are happy and that their friends fill that void. Really!!! I am not buying it. In my opinion, to make a conscious decision to live out your life without taking a mate along the journey, makes for a lonely existence. Not my words.. read your Bible. I’m so glad my parents did not feel this way. I personally believe no one wants to be alone be it human or animal; but gives up on the effort to find that special someone. What’s your thoughts?